Catch His Name Before Falling
Dear Frankly,
Every time a young man I am attracted to says or does something nice to me, I fall head over heels in love with him. I have no idea why, and this happens all the time. I even fall in love with men I meet for the first time–and I think that they love me. When I see them again they either completely ignore me or flirt with another girl. I set my self up to be hurt. I know I shouldn’t get my hopes up about a guy, but I always do. What do you think I should do?
Fall Too Fast
Dear Fall Too,
Are you kidding me? The easiest love to fall into is infatuating love. Of course, it usually helps to know their name. The next time a man does something nice, just assume he’s trying to get you into the sack. And try to at least catch his name.
Dear Frankly,
I am a teenage girl. I have been going out with my younger boyfriend for a month now. I had sex with him for the first time a couple of days ago. It was my first time, but he doesn’t know this. He thinks that I have a lot of experience. I want to tell him that I lost my virginity to him. Is there any reason why I should or shouldn’t tell him? I have trust issues with guys due to past experiences. What should I do?
Former Virgin
Dear Former,
You slept with the guy after only 30 days? He probably thinks you’re the school hussy. If you tell him he was the first, he’s going to brag it all over school. Perhaps that would improve your reputation. Try to hold out more than a month before putting out next time.
