October 27, 2020

Divorce-Say Dilemmas

Dear Frankly,

I’m a separated 40-plus male “divorced” for many years in every way but legally. I posted a personal ad on a website and have been contacted by –and met–a number of women. There is one woman in particular that I am very interested in and have been spending a lot of time with. I have not told her I am still married and did not share this in my profile because I believed it would scare women away. When is the right time to come clean and admit my situation?

Not Quite Divorced

Dear Not Quite,

My fourth husband was still married while we were seeing each other. I eventually met her and agreed he and his money would be better off with me. Let your date meet your wife so she can see who the schmuck is in your marriage. It’s only fair.

Frankly,

Fanny


Dear Frankly,

I’m a 48-year-old male, divorced seven years, no kids. Though my divorce was emotionally painful, I believed that I would have an easy transition back to my old single (and dating) life. A few short lived relationships with much younger women followed, none of them lasting. All said they had enjoyed their time with me, yet in the end settled with younger men. For the past two years I have been living dateless and in celibacy. I want to be with someone, but am getting depressed. What should I do?

Feeling Old

Dear Feeling,

I suggest you accept your age and try finding someone who is not looking for a “daddy.” Your whiney letter leads me to think you would be better off with an older woman. Find a “mommy.”

Frankly,

Fanny


 

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