Define “Good Catch,” Please
Dear Frankly,
I’m a thirty something, professional, financially successful male who has never had a long term, committed relationship. I usually ask out a girl I find attractive, go out a few times and then find something wrong with her and make myself unavailable when she calls. I think about how nice it would be to meet a great girl and settle down, but I never seem to meet girls that live up to my expectations. I think I’m a good catch. Can you help me find the girl of my dreams?
Ready and Willing
Dear Ready,
First of all, you keep referring to the opposite sex as girls. I therefore surmise that you are a thirty-something year old boy. Also, while having a job does make you a good catch, real women aren’t into serial daters.
Dear Frankly,
I have been dating for a long time, yet I still can’t figure out what women are looking for or the qualities they expect to find in a man. Even though women tell a man they are looking for a nice, honest guy who doesn’t play games, I have a theory that most women are looking for a “bad boy” who is a little dangerous, sexually aggressive and sometimes treats them badly. Am I doing something wrong and should I adjust my dating game plan?
First Date Downer
Dear First,
Let me start by saying you are absolutely right. Women are looking for that bad boy that they can tame. The problem is that after they tame them they get bored with them and develop a wandering eye. My advice? Get bad and stay bad.
